transcreature:

mocosyamores:

jietingx:

CHILLS DOWN MY SPINE. 

(source)

ALL THE FUCKING CHILLS

damn, what a beautifully powerful performance.

Fucking beautiful….
“Rainbows are just a trick of the light”

Holy shit.

Transcription:

There’s no place like homo
There’s no place like homo

somewhere over the rainbow
way up high
there’s a land that I heard of
once in a lullaby

Wake up honi
it’s called san francisco
where white bourgie bitches getting gay married
but my ass ain’t got an invite sha hoo~

Somewhere over the rainbow
Blue birds fly.
Birds fly over the rainbow.
Why then, oh why can’t I?

BECAUSE YOU’RE BROWN HONEY GURL

I’m bout to sassy gay friend this ish ~
Not gay as in happy but queer as in fuck you
Rainbows are just refracted beams of white light,
Gay marriage activism is a temper tantrum:
Mommy I’m going to buy an “I’m a second class citizen” American Apparel v-neck to go with my corporate internship and some ass

I didn’t always think this way
Cuz philadelphia taught me everything i still know about shame
that my queer body was something to “correct”
that looking like “a faggot with a cunt” only meant
I was looking for trouble

So in high school I laced my shoes with rainbows
and preached the gospel of equal rights and pride
That tell us marriage will finally untangle
our love from shame, will legislate us wholly human

But the day same sex marriage was legalized in New York, DC, Connecticut, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Vermont, Iowa it didn’t get better because “Somewhere over the rainbow” there’s a pot of Goldman Sachs
**DUN DUN DUN DUN**We are gathered here today**

for richer, for poorer
tell that to El’Jai who lost his job last year
His state is one of only 12
where you cannot legally be fired
for having a body that doesn’t sit right with your heart
but his job “could only be done by a man”
and his genitals did not conform to his employers expectations.

[I do not know if he won the court case, only that he has a son,
and that being brown and trans means being 4 times less likely to find work]
but who needs money for bread when you can eat wedding cake!

in good times and in bad
tell that to Temmie Breslauer a transwoman who was arrested for using
her father’s discount subway card.
the NYPD chained her to a wall for 28 hours and called her a he-she
to have and to be held
this is what marriage means for queer people
as we send the government wedding invitations to incarcerate our love

till death do us part,
tell that to asher brown who at thirteen took a gun to his head
as if it was an act of patriotism because in texas
being gay is a death sentence
it is nights spent whispering secrets to open skies
it is the sound of your mother crying because she wonders
how that thing came out of her

and i do, i do, i do
not believe that a marriage certificate
could have stopped the bullet

Remember,
Remember,
Remember,
There is something beautiful about being lied to:
Rainbows are just a trick of light,
They make us forget the storm is still happening,
When walking towards the end of the rainbow, it will always move away.

(Source: militant-rage, via tinyspiritz)

"I still think it’s important for people to have a sharp, ongoing critique of marriage in patriarchal society — because once you marry within a society that remains patriarchal, no matter how alternative you want to be within your unit, there is still a culture outside you that will impose many, many values on you whether you want them to or not."

bell hooks, On Marriage

that’s it exactly, that’s exactly it

(via derica)

YUP. sad but very true.

(Source: kdhume, via modernistwitch-deactivated20120)

hfgl:

loudlittleleahlux:


this is a really short and sweet article on kim and thurston’s breakup without being invasive or tasteless… not to mention the incredible illustration.

hfgl:

loudlittleleahlux:


this is a really short and sweet article on kim and thurston’s breakup without being invasive or tasteless… not to mention the incredible illustration.

(via meredithgraves-deactivated20121)

The Closet

therealkatiewest:

jrblackwell:

It’s time to clear up something. I’m not straight.

I get why you might think I’m straight. I’m in a hetero-normative relationship, I’m a cis woman, my husband is a cis man and this October, we will have been married for three years. You may have been my friend for the last six or seven years and never known a time when I haven’t been with my husband. It’s cool, I get it. It’s not like I go around waving a P-Flag.

Okay, well, SOMETIMES I do. My husband and I spent our first anniversary marching in Washington DC for equal rights for everyone, but you might have thought we were just supporters. That’s cool. But it’s not tattooed on my forehead or anything. So I want to say that I get it. I understand why you might think I’m straight and really, it’s my fault for not letting you know, for allowing you to assume based on available evidence.

But I’m not straight. I like the term queer but I’m happy with bisexual as well. I’ve been called a freak and as long as you mean it in a positive and not pejorative way, it’s fine with me.

The thing is, it is very easy to blend into hetero-normative culture, very easy to disappear. Even friends who known me for a very long time refer to the relationship before my husband as the last man I had a relationship with, even though I had a girlfriend between my husband and the last man I dated. It’s as if, to them, that woman didn’t count. As if we never existed, as if that weren’t real.

But it was real. All of the women I was with were real and my history doesn’t disappear because of my current status. What I am doesn’t change. But it’s my responsibility to let you know, because if you look at me, you’re going to assume based on what you see now, which is reasonable.Which is why I have to come out of the closet. Again. And Again. And why I’ll have to come out for the rest of my life. Because it’s not obvious, but it’s important that you know.

Some people might argue that I’m with my husband now, and that since we’re monogamous, why even bother coming out of the closet? What’s the point, if I’m not dating right now? The point is that politicians like to claim people like me and my husband, married people, as supporters against equal rights. They like to claim that because we are married we want to deny that right to other people. They like to think that because we appear to be heterosexual, we are on their side.But the truth is, we aren’t heterosexual, and even if we were, we would still be on the side of equality. Getting married did not change our viewpoint or our orientation.

When my husband and I took vows to each other, we did not swear away our sexuality. We did not become magically straight in front of our family and friends.

I lost friends when I came out the first time. One woman told me that she couldn’t talk to me anymore, because she was afraid I’d hit on her and take advantage of her. At that point, we had been friends for four years.  Another friend I lost when I got engaged to my husband. He called my engagement a “bisexual-beard-of-a-wedding” because he couldn’t understand how we could be attracted to men and women.

But for every friendship lost, there were deeper, more honest friendships to be gained. Coming out allowed me to cultivate a group of friends who cared for me as I am, not as they wanted me to be. Friends who accepted me as I am, and lovers who wanted all of me, who understood me. But I’ve gotten complacent. It’s easy to become complacent, to allow people to believe the easy, more acceptable thing. But it’s not true, and it’s not honest. In the end, it leads to the kind of friends that would turn on you if they knew who you really were, and that’s not friendship at all.

THIS.

This is also my life. Very much so: married to a man but queer as all get out.

SIDE NOTE: Today, one of the people I follow on Tumblr was feeling as if they should spend less time online and more time with real people. That the digital people were not as important as the real people. And while this at times may be true, if I didn’t spend time in my digital world, I would never have met J.R. Blackwell in real life. And meeting her was one of the most important things that ever happened to me. The woman is amazing. In every way.  Thank you, J.R. Blackwell, for being one of the best things about my digital life and my real life.

i relate to this more than i’d like to admit.

man-themed:

DEAN SPADE ON GAY MARRIAGE FTW.

morgan showed this to me a few weeks back and i looooooved it then and i love it now.