"…we get along in a way that doesn’t often happen because she is so easy to be with. we don’t have as much time together as we should. but know that even though i don’t see julia often, she is always supportive of me and i always feel, when i see her, caught up on her life. not because i read what she says on livejournal all the time, but because she is an attentive listener and a fun and spontaneous person. she makes me feel relaxed because she will often just look at me and say “awkward!” and then we all laugh. julia’s entries, when she does post, are an achievement that is not usually accomplished on livejournal at all. they are entirely honest. they are not pretentious. they do not imply that people are being left out or things are being glossed over. she doesn’t allude to secrets that are too much to write about. she posts pictures of her smiling face. she talks about her dreams for the future. she writes excited entries about films and bands and friends of hers. she links back to things she had written years ago. she posts pictures of her younger self, long hair and big sunglasses, so that we can all laugh at our old selves. she staunchly refuses to become jaded about the medium. she counts me, us, as one of the many benefits of having a blog that outweigh all the negative aspects."
- iris, writing about our internet friendship. i can’t believe she wrote this six years ago, and how true it still holds - even if the mediums we communicate on have evolved and changed since.
posting this publicly, here, for posterity’s sake, and to remind myself how lucky i am to know someone like iris who profoundly understands so much about who i am, and challenges me on the things i need to be challenged on.
I’m still on lj, and I still use lj, but I’ll look through it and find these amazing communities that haven’t been updated in ages and wonder what happened.
I mean, I know what happened.
Nostalgic would be my update status.
i totally agree. there are other great websites and ways to connect with people but i felt like there was so much more discussion going on in communities even a year or two ago that now i find hard to replace.
also, i am working on a post for thriftwhore i was meaning to post today, and realized it probably doesn’t even matter anyway. the last two times i’ve posted there i’ve noticed most of my favourite people are gone anway, there are fewer comments, and the comments that do get posted aren’t really all that insightful or helpful. i’ve noticed the same with fashion communities, film communities, vintage communities; places where i learned SO much!