"One of my goals in thinking about redefining the way we view relationships is to try to treat the people I date more like I treat my friends—try to be respectful and thoughtful and have boundaries and reasonable expectations—and to try to treat my friends more like my dates—to give them special attention, honor my commitments to them, be consistent, and invest deeply in our futures together."
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Dean Spade (For Lovers and Fighters)
this is a hard thing to aspire to, but something i try to do.
(Source: makezine.enoughenough.org, via claire-adactyl)
