self-care
strange form of self-care for the week? unfollowing tumblrs that feel the need to respond to every negative message (anonymous or not) or reblog that ever gets sent their way. i mean, do what you gotta do, but just reading a line or two and scrolling past puts me in such a bad mood.
i’m really trying to refocus what kind of conversations i feel are feasible, realistic and productive to try and have on tumblr. in the world of reblogs and hearts, i’m not a fan. but even on blogs where you can comment back and forth, i’m less certain of how helpful or productive they can be. these days i’m shifting more towards trying to present my thoughts and opinions in a concise, direct way and letting people respond if they want, but not having it necessarily be a necessity. my best posts aren’t the ones that received the most hits or comments.
also trying real hard to keep the number of people i follow down to at least 250. this shit is hard.
